Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:10
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am 17 and my boyfriend whom I’ve been dating for six months now is 24. The problem is he’s started seeing a new girl now but he doesn’t want me to leave him, we still see each other. I lost hope for our relationship and now I’m falling for his brother and his brother has feelings for me too. Now I’m very confused
– I love my boyfriend so much that I don’t want to let him go, but I’m also developing these feelings for his brother. What should I do auntie, should I go for his brother?
Answer:
It seems to me that you like complications in your life. If your boyfriend is seeing someone else then he is not your boyfriend, he is just someone that keeps you dangling on a string. If you start a relationship with his brother it will cause complications between them and you will have to deal with the fact that you still see your ex with his new girlfriend while there are still feelings between you. Plus how will his new girlfriend and his brother deal with the situation? If the feelings you have for his brother are not only to get back at him and you can deal with all the complications, then go for it but think carefully, you might only get hurt more.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:10
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am a 15-year-old girl and I am addicted to blue movies. I also want to have sex with a girl and I masturbate every day but it doesn’t satisfy me. Is this normal?
Answer:
Dear girl, the addiction that you have is not normal but it is also not your fault or something that you have done wrong. Addictions can be caused by different things like trauma, depression or other psychological disorders which just means that you have a condition that you don’t have control over.
You need to get professional help from somebody like a psychologist or psychological counsellor.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:09
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am a guy of 16 years and I abstain from sex. However, I started masturbating at the age of 12 and if I don’t masturbate I get wet dreams up to two times a week. We have learned that men who are not sexually active get wet dreams only once or twice a month. Is there something wrong with me? Should I rather continue to masturbate? I don’t enjoy wet dreams.
Answer:
There is nothing wrong with you. Men differ from one another and some men might only need sexual release once or twice a month and some might need it once or twice a week. Wet dreams are exactly that, sexual release and it will also differ from man to man. There is also nothing wrong with masturbating so if you don’t want to have wet dreams then by all means, lend yourself a helping hand.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:08
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am in a dilemma. I am 21 and my friend is 20. We have been friends all along but now he wants to date me. Should I date him or do you think we should just stay friends?
Answer:
Oh boy! This is one of those situations that have no easy answers and one of those things that shouldn’t happen to complicate one’s life, but it does. Let’s see if we can get some perspective. If you say you just want to be friends, he’ll feel hurt but if he is a good friend he will respect your wishes and you carry on. Remember that a good friend will always be there for you but a boyfriend might not be. You date and it does not work out. Now it’s difficult to go back to just being friends and you lose a friend. Or the friendship survives. You date and it works. Great! Now your friend is your boyfriend and this is probably the best thing that can happen in a relationship. What do I think? I think you should trust your instincts.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:07
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am 23 and I’m dating a 38-year-old guy. My problem is that my vagina is big and I don’t feel anything when we have sex. We love each other so much. What can I do, I don’t want to lose him.
Answer:
If you’ve never had children it is impossible that your vagina is too big. Not even having lots of sex can give you a large vagina as no amount of sex can have an effect on the size of your vagina. Your size can only be affected by childbirth and the more babies you have, the more likely it is that your vagina will get wider. So if you never had babies then the problem lies elsewhere and because you love each other you must look at other options. It might just be that you are sexually not on the same page, so to speak, and you need to talk about this openly. Share with each another what you like and want sexually and be inventive in your lovemaking and through this journey, you will discover the solution to your question.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:04
The world's oldest dog according to Guinness World Records has died in Japan at the age of 26 years and eight months. Read more about World’s oldest dog dies
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 11:03
Linda Burnett, 23, a resident of San Diego, was visiting her in-laws, and while there, she went to a nearby supermarket to pick up some groceries. Read more about Wanted for attempted murder
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 10:59
Six people drowned while trying to rescue a chicken that had fallen into a well in southern Egypt. An 18-year-old farmer was the first to descend into the 60-foot well. He drowned, apparently after an undercurrent in the water pulled him down, police said. Read more about Six die trying to save chicken
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2011-12-28 10:57
General McKenzie was in charge of the Navy, and he was visiting his colleague General Marshall, who was in charge of the Army. McKenzie arrives at the military camp and is greeted by Marshall. They both walk around the place, and McKensie asks: "So how are your men?"
"Very well trained, Gral. McKenzie."
"I hope so. You see, my men over at the Navy are so well trained, you could see they're the bravest men all over the country."
