Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:11
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I need to release my album but I have no money. I need help, what can I do?
Answer:
You cannot release an album if nobody knows you. Who will buy your album? Why not try getting yourself out there, perform at shows even if it’s for free, and get the exposure. Make a name for yourself and then make plans to release an album. You can also start with a single and take it to someone who will tell you the truth about whether it is good or not. If it is good, sooner or later, someone may just be willing to sponsor you.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:11
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, My man is cheating on me with other women and I’m pregnant. To make it worse, he has a picture of her naked on his phone.
Answer:
You have to make a decision as you have to look after yourself. It does not sound like this man has much respect for you. So you need to decide if you still want to stick around or if you want to leave him. I can’t meet up with you but you should talk to somebody you trust such as a friend or family member as you will need support during this time. You don’t have to do this alone.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:11
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I am a Namibian girl and I fell in love with a Zimbabwean man. I am pregnant, but I am afraid of telling my mother. Please help me.
Answer:
This is unfortunately something that you cannot keep from your mother and you should tell her as soon as possible. You do not say if she knows about your boyfriend and approve or disapprove of him, but he should support you and maybe go with you when you speak with your mother.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:10
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I was taking contraceptives from June until September 2012. I want to have a child, but I am fi nding it hard to fall pregnant and I really want a baby. I am 27.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:10
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, A few months ago, I was in love with a girl, but my friend took her away from me. I am now in love with another girl but she is also going out with my friend behind my back. I saw them kissing at school behind the library, but I just walked away and she pretended as if she did nothing. I get crazy because he is my second friend who I think likes hurting me. What should I do?
Answer:
You need to learn to choose your friends with a bit more care. In the meantime, leave this girl alone and stay away from your so-called friend. A real friend would never hurt you intentionally.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:10
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I am 22 and my girlfriend who will soon be the mother of my fi rstborn. The problem is that she already has a two-yearold baby girl. Her family told her to kill my unborn, but she didn’t. I even used to adore her baby girl but now I don’t and I am just sick of them all. All I want is for her to give birth to my baby and then stay out of her life and her family. She does not want to do what I want her to.
Answer:
They may be wrong, but they are her family and as such have an infl uence on her decisions. She is also a person in her own right and must make up and speak her own mind and you should communicate with her and not expect her to do only what you want. The little girl did nothing, so please don’t take out your anger on her either. Speak to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel. It is wrong to have a child and not be involved in his/her life.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Fri, 2013-04-05 09:09
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I am in love with a guy I made love with three times. He now does not want to talk to me and I’m crazy in love with him. What can I do?
Answer:
Maybe it was just one of those sexual arrangements that you didn’t really discuss - those no strings attached relationships. It could be the reason behind him not talking to you. He doesn’t want a relationship, just sex. Move on.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Thu, 2013-04-04 10:19
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I have a problem with my vagina. When I decide to have sex with my lover, his penis can’t go in. Am I the abnormal one? Do I need to see a doctor because sometimes after he’s done, I bleed a lot?
Answer:
Maybe you and your boyfriend should try foreplay because you are dry. This is to help lubricate you so that you are ready for penetration when you finally do have sex. If it still doesn’t work, you can also try lubricators that you can apply in order to make it less painful. If the bleeding still continues, see a doctor.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Thu, 2013-04-04 10:19
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I’ve been in love with a girl for nine months now. I found out that she’s dating another guy, and when I asked her about it, she said that the man forced her but she didn’t want to. I wasted a lot on her. Can I kill her? I would die for her. Please help me.
Answer:
It’s obvious that you really like this girl but that doesn’t give you the right to even consider killing her. You didn’t give life, so you don’t have any right to take it. If you don’t want her any more, break things o_ and let her go. I know it won’t be easy, but it’s all you can do. If you still feel you can’t go on, then maybe you should seek psychological help.
Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Thu, 2013-04-04 10:19
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy, I’m in love with the guy of my dreams and I broke up his relationship with his girl. He has a child with the woman and he was blamed by his family when he left her, so he went back to her and they now have a small baby. The guy still says that he’s in love with me. I said it’s over, but he’s always following me. I’m now tired of his lies, he even tells me that the baby is a mistake. I need your help because I’m dying inside.
Answer:
You need to put this man in his place. He has a woman and children and needs to leave you alone and start taking responsibility for the family he has with this woman. If he really did love you, he wouldn’t have left you and gone back to her just because he was bullied into it by his family. You need to make it clear to him, and it’s also not fair of him to be after you like this. You need to move on and meet other single people. Get your own man.
