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He can’t perform in bed
Question:
Dear Auntie Nangy,
I really have a problem and I need your help please. I’m a 24-year-old woman dating a 36-year-old man for three years now. The problem is that his performance in bed is very poor. I used to try teaching him but there’s still no improvement, he doesn’t even know how to kiss. I don’t love him any more but I’m afraid to dump him because he’s spent so much money on me.
Answer:
I really don’t understand the money issue. Did he spend the money on you because he had to or because he wanted to? I’m sure it was his choice to do it, so I can’t understand why you feel you have an obligation towards him.
Sex is a big part of a relationship and if it doesn’t work it will have an impact on your future happiness. On the other hand you might be in a comfort zone because of the money he spends on you and are only using this issue as an excuse not to end the relationship. Be honest with yourself and decide what you want to do.
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