How do I forget the past?

Submitted by Sun Reporter2 on Wed, 2012-06-06 14:19
Question: 

Dear Auntie Nangy

I was dating a man for eight years. He cheated on me by impregnating two other ladies. I am stressing because he promised to marry but now I am alone. I want a child but I am afraid to fall in love again and get disappointed. What can I do to forget the past and move on with my life?

Answer: 

Stop stressing and give a big sigh of relief because this cheater is gone from your life.

Don’t be negative. Tell yourself there are many wonderful men out there who can be trusted and who will love you like you deserved to be loved. Don’t tell yourself that all men are the same (and like the cheater) because they are not.

Go out with friends and enjoy your life. Don’t become obsessed with hunting down a guy right now. When the time is right and you are just being yourself and having a good time, he will come knocking on your door. Just believe it.

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