I can’t find joy
Dear Auntie Nangy
I am a 22-year-old man and I can’t find joy in anything I do. When I propose to ladies, it always ends in heartbreak. They accept and we do the calling and SMS thing, then we agree to meet somewhere. When I meet up with the ladies, they always react badly to me. Is there anything wrong with me or my approach? I don’t even have a bad history in society.
Maybe you just haven’t met the right girl yet. Why don’t you try a different approach? Don’t go out there with the aim to find a girl’s number, call and SMS her and then meet up. Rather let things happen if they do, when you go out. It does not sound like you meet the people in person at first but more like internet relationships. Just don’t think about it too much and let nature take its course.