I love a married guy

Question: 

Dear Auntie Nangy
I am 24 years old and I am in a relationship with a 49-year-old man. I love this guy but I just found out that he is married. I am still in love with him and I don’t know what to do to stop loving him.

Answer: 

Forget about him and move on. By forgetting about him, I don’t mean it will happen without heartbreak and pain but a relationship like this is normally only from the woman’s side and she is the one that suffers.

An affair also involves other people such as his wife and children and even if he does not seem to care about that you should. You are worth much more and owe it to yourself not to be used like this and you must use the strength that I know you have to do the right thing.