My husband treats me like dirt

Question: 

Dear Auntie Nangy,
I am married and a mother of three. My husband is always unhappy about everything I do. He is always angry and negative when he talks to me. I found SMSs from other girls on his phone but he denied everything. Can I proceed with this relationship? Answer to my phone.

Answer: 

It seems he is having an affair or affairs which could make him rather edgy – because he knows he is doing wrong but then takes it out on you.

Ask him if he would prefer to end this marriage or if he is willing to make it work.
Take action right now. You both have three children to think about – remind him of his responsibilities.